Getting ready for your Domme - a word on HYGIENE
A mandatory Grooming regimen ... to avoid Her getting the ICK
When it comes to preparing for your appointment with a dominatrix (or other SW) IMPECCABLE HYGIENE is non-negotiable! It’s time to channel your inner cleaning fanatic. Unfortunately, it’s shocking how many men seem unaware of this basic necessity. Many sex workers share the same experience, noting that some even LIE about showering beforehand! This is the bare minimum of respect you can offer—not only to your domme, but also to yourself, gentlemen! Franchement !
These are the steps you must take BEFORE your appointment. Remember, when your domme offers you to shower at the dungeon, this shower beforehand isn’t meant to be an exhaustive cleaning session; it’s just a quick freshening up. So, pay close attention! Take screenshots if necessary, learn these steps by heart, print them out, or do whatever it takes so you don’t forget one. single. detail.
Your cleanliness is MANDATORY, now let's get started :
Enema: “clean your ass” does not mean the bare minimum soap in your crack. It's expelling everything from your colon! You know what kills sexy time during your prostate checkup ? A turd on your Domme’s glove. Do this a couple hours before the session because you can also have a little water incident coming out during play. Also, for overall hygiene, you should invest in a bidet! (https://www.verywellhealth.com/how-to-use-an-enema-1942648)
Bellybutton Check: Is it clean? Seriously, check for those lint bunnies. They’re not pets; get rid of them!
Dental Hygiene: Brush your teeth AND floss. Seriously, we’re not talking about a light brush; we’re talking about making your dental hygienist proud. Mouthwash or gum if necessary.
Shaving Essentials: Give those privates and the backdoor a trim. Do this the day of or the day before your appointment. It’s much more erotic to have bush-free access for anal play and for CBT - so it doesn’t have to feel like your fingering Sasquatch. Let’s keep that path clear for some serious exploration! Also, It’s not rare that toilet paper fluff get stuck in your ass hair. One more reason to get a bidet ! (https://www.popsci.com/diy/why-to-use-bidet/)
Scrub-a-Dub-Dub that dick : circumcised and especially uncut, be sure to wash and pay attention under the folds of skin and head. Inspect for any Unwanted Visitors: any stray hair or fluff, or gross buildup of “mansweat”
Toe and feet Maintenance: GENTLEMEN, cut your damn toenails! Although We know men like women’s pretty feet, We might not reciprocate the same obsession on men’s feet. However - do cater to them! Cut and clean your nails, and get rid of the calluses https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=De05HLN-Zx0 . Or go for a pedicure if you don’t know how. No excuses ! This is the most common part of your body that gets neglected. Hands and nails clean of course, trimmed and filed.
Grooming Perks: Trim your nostrils, nose hair and ear hair. Looking like a wild man is great for the wilderness, but less when meeting a dominatrix.
Ear Cleaning: Seriously, clean your ears. No one likes to see your waxy build-up.
Moisturize (If Needed): If your skin tends to be dry, apply a little unscented moisturizer. Especially an after-shave if you’re not used to it - nipples, groin region, elbows and knees. No need for perfume ! But keep that skin soft and supple, perfect to dig Our nails (or needles) into !
Final check before you enter the dungeon: Having clean and fresh smelling hair, dressed in your best outfit like a date in a high end restaurant, definitely be sure you have no boogers in nose AND eyes, pop a mint, and follow Her protocol to the T upon entry. You will be so much calmer knowing that you've put your A game.
Note on Health : Reminder to get your STI check-up. STI & Contagious Infections: You must inform your domme if you have tested positive for an STI or any contagious infection that could pose a risk to others. Withholding relevant health information is unacceptable. Inform your domme/ service provider as soon as possible if you're feeling unwell, experiencing symptoms of illness, or need to reschedule.